The first time I was so guilty and dirty.

The second time I was torn between two feelings.

The third time I went numb and went along.

The fourth time It was normal.

The fifth time I called it fun.

The sixth time It was just ordinary, but I couldn’t stop.

The seventh time I said, “Just one more time.”

The eighth time I said that this would be the last time.

The ninth time I was tired of trying to stop, so I stopped counting.

The tenth time, There has been many tenth time.

I have an addiction.

Oh, wretched man that i am. Who will deliver me from this!


If you have lost count of your addiction to pornography and masturbation, there is still a way out… I’m not here to tell you about the dangers of it, but I’m not trying to add to your pain. Although trying to show love doesn’t mean I should sugarcoat the truth…God is against pornography which leads to masturbation.

Every porno addict is a masturbator..And the end of this sin is hell…But there is only one way out…No doctor can help you get out, no psychologist can help you out, no drugs can help you out. In fact the devil doesn’t want you to be free from this. He is so concerned about your soul ending in hell.

Can you recall how it all started? Can you remember how you started looking at naked pictures and videos, from there sex stories. The music industry has not helped you. The music industry and movie industry has been really helping Satan on you. You have tried to stop it.

You say today I won’t masturbate, the next thing you fall into it. It feels good then but after that you become sorrowful…

Even sometimes you see it now as a normal thing, there is no more remorse or guilt about this sin against the Almighty…By this you can acquire demons, now you always dream sex, don’t you know a lot has happened to you? this! i didn’t want to go into;

so I’ll like to stop here… You are a christian you say, nobody knows about it, yes!. But God knows about it.

You post good posts on Facebook but engage in sex chat with the opposite gender privately.

You go to visit immoral pages on the internet.

How long will you continue to pretend that all is well? Even when God sends someone to help you, and ask you about your faith, you always reply that all is well. Why are you hiding in hypocrisy?

You can’t deceive God. He has been calling on you to stop. Like HE is also doing today, now!

Would you reject Him again? Maybe someone has told you it’s not a sin. “But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” (Matthew 5:28).

Is this not lust? What pictures come to your mind during this act, are they not put in your mind by the devil?

Trying to stop it yourself you cannot help you. You have been advised maybe to always not to be alone in a place but to be in the midst of people where you will not be able to do this..Yes! True! But what about night? What of when everyone has slept? What of when it is just you in the bathroom or toilet?

You see, the psychologist cannot help you. ONLY JESUS CAN HELP YOU... Think about how painful this your act is to Him, how He died for you. Think about your eternity in hell, if this act is not stopped now that there is still grace and mercy…

The way out is:
1). You must feel guilty (godly sorrow)

“Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death.” (2 Corinthians 7:10).

You must acknowledge that what you have been doing is wrong and that you have offended God.

2). Confess your sins to God, believing He will forgive if really you are willing to forsake this act.

3). Promise Him you do not want to do it again, make up your mind not to.

4). Abstain from the internet and media which usually prompt you to fall. Avoid these things till you are totally delivered. And stop watching immoral videos, whether music or movie, you may think they don’t matter but has a great role to play in this issue.

5).Avoid evil communication, avoid friends who are immoral. Break up with friends that discuss immoral with you.

6).Self control- discipline your body, subject it under your control

7).Know that your body is the temple of God and not for immorality

8). Always remember, the soul which sin shall die (eternal death, which is hell)

9). Only prayer and the Word of God can help you out…Always pray and study the word of God.

Associate with godly people not those who will prompt you to sin. I would also advise that you stay away from the media and the internet for sometime. And when you are on internet, turn off your image on your browser, I mean put off the images. Prevent your browser from displaying images, this will also help you. Make friend with godly people. Run from people and things that will stir up lust in your heart. Deal with your eyes.

Discipline your eyes. “But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.” (Matthew 5:27-30).

“I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a girl.” (Job 31:1). 10).
Ask God to deliver you totally, with God all things are possible, don’t give up….The devil is a liar, making you to ask yourself now “can I ever stop this?.” Listen to God, now, He is saying YES MY DAUGHTER, YES MY SON YOU CAN….
“My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness”.

LET US ADD THIS… Please Don’t make Excuses, but just admit that you have been committing sin. If truly you need God’s mercy to pardon your sins and give you grace to overcome them, then you need to face it by yourself and acknowledge your sin. Don’t excuse sin because everybody is doing it – in your church (even your pastors, parents or partners), in your family, in your place of work, etc. Don’t says, “Does that means everybody doing it will go to hell fire?”

Yes, everybody can go to hell and God will still be righteous. Jesus said instead of you to be thinking how many will be saved, YOU strife to be saved NOW. Don’t excuse sin because of its popularity, it’s in person – you, face it. And sin is sin, either small or great, there is no difference, you just be sincere and confess it.

Psalm 51:3
For I acknowledge my transgressions, And my sin is always before me. 4 Against You, You only, have I sinned, And done this evil in Your sight.

Make a Genuine Confession. Do you wonder why you’ve made several confessions of your sins and yet you still have guilt of those sins, you still go back into such sins, and your salvation is not certain or you find yourself going back into your sins?

It’s simple: you didn’t make genuine confession. Genuine confession is not just using the name of Jesus, not answering alter call and so on.

Take the next 2 steps that lead you to genuine salvation in Jesus Christ:

First Repent before You confess. There are many fake confessions, but if you sincerely want to make acceptable confession, you must first repent. No need for you to confess if there is no repentance in you. Repentance is thoughtful realization of your sins and determination to forsake them. If you confess without readiness to forsake the sins you confess, you are simply wasting your time, and the sins will soon get you down. To repent is not to be sorry for your sins, if you are sorry without readiness to forsake all, you will have a sorry case and that is not a genuine salvation.

Humble yourself before God now and surrender all. Proverbs 28:13 He who covers his sins will not prosper, But whoever confesses and forsakes them will have mercy. Now all you need to do is to go before God in prayer as you confess your sins and ask God to forgive you through His Son Jesus Christ. Tell Him you are sorry for how you have lived and all you have done, ask Him to cleanse you by the Blood of Jesus and give you a new heart and a new spirit. He will do it as He has promised in His Word saying, “If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. 9 If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” 1 John 1:8-9.


This message is coming due to the imminent return of our LORD AND SAVIOUR, JESUS CHRIST, WHO has urged all men in this end time, to be reconciled to HIM. PREPARE YOUR HEART AND BODY FOR THE LORD.

“Behold, I come quickly…Rev 3:11

TIME IS ALMOST OVER, GRACE AND MERCY ALMOST OVER …. Please let’s Make good use of it now.

“I am Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end, the first and the last. Blessed are they that do his commandments, that they may have right to the tree of life, and may enter in through the gates into the city.” (Revelation 22:13-14).



Learn To Forgive

“Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Till seven times?” -Matthew 18:21

Forgiveness is a great experience for a Christian. Forgiveness is a crisis of an experience – whether we are receiving it or we are giving it.

The lesson of forgiveness is one of the lessons we learn in a difficult way (Mt. 18:21-35). However, the lesson of forgiveness is a lesson to learn.

When we forgive others, we are practicing godliness. Forgiveness is an act of God. When we forgive, we are obeying one me the great commandments me God, and we shall be called great in the Kingdom. Forgiveness has great impact on our prayers. Forgiveness is a debt we must not owe others.

1. We must understand what the Lord says about forgiveness (Mt. 18:21-22)

2. We must be sure our heart is ruled by love towards our fellow brothers (Rom. 13:8)

3. We must be more interested in covering the sins of our brothers, but speaking the truth to them in love.

4. We must be ready to forgive at all time (Lk. 17:3-5)

5. Always remember how much you are forgiven by God (Mt. 18:23-35)

6. Remember we are not perfect too, and not immuned from the same mistakes (Gal. 6:1)

7. Patiently study the erring and constantly offending brother to see how you can help him.

8. Remember, if you don’t forgive, yo put yourself in a more dangerous situation. (Mk. 11:25-26)

Reflection: “And be ye kind to another, tender-hearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ‘s sake hath forgiven you” (Eph. 4:32)

This week practice forgiveness with everyone who offended you.
Apologise as often as you offend others.
Reconcile with an old enemy, if any.

I love to read your comments. Remain Blessed:-)